We receive many calls and emails at The Kastle
from ladies interested in finding out more
about professional Mistressing. The first
thing I tell them is that it is NOT a career
for everybody. Many are called and very few
are chosen as the saying goes. The most important
requirement for anyone considering Pro-Dom
work as either a full- or part-time career
is that they have a genuine interest in the
BDSM scene. This is far more important than
personal appearance. As far as looks go,
it doesn't really matter if a lady is well-built,
thin, short, tall, blonde, brunette or redhead.
Her age (as long as she is over 18) is also
irrelevant ... with some Dominas hitting
their prime in their 40's. Her sexual orientation
and private arrangements are also not important
... successful Dominas over the years at
The Kastle have been gay, straight, bi, married,
single, de-factos, single-mothers and (sometimes)
up to three times divorced.
Apart from the possible financial
rewards it is also imperative that an applicant gets other forms of satisfaction
from the sessions she will conduct. Whether it be emotional or spiritual
or even physical !! So much energy, output and giving is required from
a Mistress that it is an impossible job to fake.
When interested ladies come to chat to me
about Mistress work, I usually invite them
to come back and join us for a day in a no-pressure,
no-obligation environment, to see what goes
on behind-the-scenes and decide if it is
a direction worth pursuing. Ladies who wish
to conduct sessions in The Kastle's premises
usually spend the day watching training videos,
reading health and safety information, observing
Mistresses in sessions, and generally orienting
themselves in the operations of The Kastle.
Most successful Mistresses share certain
personality traits and characteristics ...
they are invariably extremely intelligent,
empathetic, drug and alcohol free, broadminded,
creative, patient, people-persons with inquiring
minds. If this sounds like you, and you are
interested in knowing more about becoming a 'service provider'
please email me at thekastle@excite.com - Mistress Scarlett
